20 Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl – for Guaranteed Results

When you’re dating, it can be difficult getting the balance just right between flirty and funny, but if you know what to say, you’ll seem cute and interesting rather than just another sleazy guy. 

It’s important to realise that women have been hit with every chat-up line in the book. If you want to grab her attention – and keep it – you’ll need to offer a little more. But if you’re stuck for inspiration, don’t worry; we’ve got 20 of the best flirty questions to ask a girl. Let’s get started!

#1: If you were a guy for the day, what would be the first thing you did?

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This has the potential to create a hilarious conversation, and it’s pretty imaginative too. This is one of the safe but flirty questions you can ask a girl at any point in your relationship.

#2: What would be your ideal romantic getaway?

This is a cute but flirty question to ask. Who doesn’t like dreaming about escaping from it all, and sharing her dream scenario could just be useful information for you to have one day – if things go well!

#3: What is the worst chat-up line that’s ever been used on you?

This has a double benefit. Firstly, it’s a fun topic and will put a smile on her face. Secondly, by asking questions about what “they” do, it shows that you’re not one of those types of guy who would pull a smarmy line.

#4: What’s the one single thing you really want to do before you die?

Everyone has a bucket list, and by asking a girl what’s on hers, you’ll not only get to know her, but you’ll also make her feel as if you’re genuinely interested in what she has to say.

#5: What are the goals in your life?

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This is another of those flirty questions which will make her feel valued and take your blossoming relationship to the next level.

#6: If your home was on fire and you only had time to grab one thing, what would you save?

This is a tough one that could be tricky to answer! However, it provides the opportunity to delve deeper into what’s important to her and why. Flirty questions for a girl can be serious too!

#7: What would your friends tell me about you?

As you won’t have the opportunity to ask her friends questions about her, why not ask her to confess instead! It could be very revealing to hear a girl describe what her friends would say, although of course, she’s bound to leave out the worst bits! 

#8: Whats the worst date youve ever experienced?

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These types of questions are not only great to get a girl to open up, but you’ll also know what to avoid! 

#9: Do you enjoy being single and dating?

Some girls enjoy the chance to meet new guys, ask them questions and generally just get to know new people. Other girls are much happier in a relationship. There’s no right or wrong answer here, but if you ask a girl what she prefers, you’ll get an honest idea about what she really wants. 

#10: Tell me a secret…


OK, it’s not technically a question, but we think it’s close enough to count. This is a conversation-opener that invites intimacy and could open the door to even more interesting confessions. 

#11: What’s your favourite song when you’re in the mood for love?

Maybe it’s Barry White, or perhaps she loves to get in the mood with a spot of Rihanna. If you’re planning on setting the scene for a romantic date later on, this could be vital information!

#12: Have you ever been skinny dipping before?

A sexy question, and if the answer is yes, try to keep your mind clear of the tantalising images that might spring up!

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#13: What’s the craziest date you can think of that you’d like to go on?

If you’re a bit of an adrenaline junkie, this is a great topic to choose. It will get her thinking and may open her mind to some madcap adventures you want to share. 

#14: What makes you laugh more than anything else?


There’s nothing sexier than laughing together and sharing funny thoughts and memories can make a date a flirty experience. 

#15: Can you describe your perfect date?

While she’s talking, you should be taking mental notes to try and recreate this as closely as you can in the future!

#16: If you could commit a crime and be guaranteed to get away, what would you do?

This is a flirty but intriguing question to ask a girl! It will create a fascinating conversation but have your own answer ready as she’s certain to ask you the same in return!

#17: If you had to be tied up to someone for 24 hours, who would it be?

There’s an undeniably sexy tone to this question, but her answer could be revealing. You never know, she might even say she’d like to be tied to you!

#18: Do you kiss a guy that you like on the first date?


If you want to increase the flirty tone of your questions, this is a great option. Cheeky but not sleazy, this makes your interest in her clear. 

#19: What would you like to know about me?

Time to turn the temperature up! You’ll need to be prepared to answer whatever type of question she comes up with so this isn’t the moment to be shy….

#20: If you could re-enact any moment from a film, what would it be?

When you ask a girl these type of questions, the answer could be quite literally anything! Her response could be flirty, romantic or even just a little bit crazy! This will show you what she’s passionate about, and what type of things make an impression on her. 

These questions should help you make the most out of any date with a girl, and create a flirtatious and fun atmosphere. For more information dating articles, check out our website!

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